January 28
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PAUL COMFORTS THE EPHESIANS THROUGH TYCHICUS
21 Now, so that you also may know about my circumstances as to what I am doing, Tychicus, the beloved brother and faithful servant in the Lord, will make everything known to you. 22 I have sent him to you for this very purpose, so that you may know about us, and that he may comfort your hearts. 23 Peace be to the brothers and sisters, and love with faith, from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 24 Grace be with all those who love our Lord Jesus Christ with incorruptible love. -Ephesians 6:21-24
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Paul mentions Tychicus in this letter. He was an associate of Paul’s mentioned in other letters (Acts 20:4, Colossians 4:7, 2 Timothy 4:12, Titus 3:12). Tychicus seems to have been often used by Paul as a messenger as he mentions in verse 22 in the phrase “as you may know about us. We hear how Paul wants to comfort the Ephesians and everyone else who read the letter about his condition during his imprisonment in Rome. What a loving person Paul is. Who would even think of comforting other people when he is in chains in a prison cell? He is so selfless and concerned how his imprisonment may cause them to lose passion to share the gospel and he wouldn’t want that because that would not bring glory to God.
Paul’s selflessness in the midst of suffering reminds me so much of Jesus comforting his disciples in John 14 when the disciples were all panicking and worried about what would happen to them if Jesus is gone. He says in verses 1-3, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. It is so reassuring for Jesus to say in verse 13 “And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it. And in verse 16-17, Jesus comforts them more with 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth. What an amazing selflessness and love Jesus had for his disciples. Paul exhibits this trait to God’s people.
Paul concluded the letter as he began it, with reference to grace and peace, the two necessary cornerstones for the Christian life. He also added the importance of their undying love for the Lord Jesus Christ to close this letter.
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REFLECTION
• How often do we comfort someone for the sake of Jesus?
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PRAY IN THE SPIRIT AT ALL TIMES ILMA’S VLOG
January 27
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PRAY IN THE SPIRIT AT ALL TIMES
18 With every prayer and request, pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be alert with all perseverance and every request for all the saints, 19 and pray in my behalf, that speech may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, 20 for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak. -Ephesians 6:18-20
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In this letter of Paul to the Ephesians, he emphasizes the command to pray in the Spirit always. He specifies not just any kind of prayer, but praying in the Spirit. What does this mean? If we walk in the Spirit, we are aligned to the will of God. It is easy for us to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit because He is the one who will tell us what to pray for. It is interesting how many Christians live prayerless lives, and then wonder why they have no victory or joy in their lives. When we abide in Christ, the Spirit is comfortable living inside of us. When He is inside of us, He will make our lives alive for Jesus. He will direct us what prayers to pray and be led to get revelations from Him who and what to pray for. Paul also says to be alert, meaning to be watchful of the requests for the saints. It is a tradition in women’s bible study, to bring in all the prayer requests of each one, but I think sometimes we also have to listen to what the Spirit wants us to pray for that requested person or situation according to what the Spirit can see that we cannot. The pray at all times seem impossible in our busy world, but there are many different kinds of prayers that we can get into such as corporate prayers, intercessory, thanksgiving, supplications, adoration, healing, wisdom, and many more. Throughout the day, we will always find a reason to pray. It is like conversing with the Lord or thinking of his commands and praying according to his words and truth. Paul requests them to pray in his behalf because he is in prison. He asked to pray for him to have boldness so he can proclaim the gospel in prison to the other prisoners. How often do we struggle to be bold and courageous to talk about the gospel to unbelievers? According to a commentary, Of course, the ancient Greek word for chains meant a prisoner’s shackles. But it could also be used for the gold adornment worn around the neck and wrists of the wealthy and powerful. On special occasions, ambassadors wore such chains to show the riches, power, and dignity of the government they represented. Paul considers his prisoner’s chains to actually be the glorious adornment of an ambassador of Jesus Christ.
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REFLECTION
• Why do you think we are asked to pray at all times? Is that even possible?
BE STRONG IN THE LORD AND WEAR GOD’S ARMOR ILMA’S VLOG
January 26
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BE STRONG IN THE LORD AND WEAR GOD’S ARMOR
10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. 13 Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist on the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm. 14 Stand firm therefore, having belted your waist with truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15 and having strapped on your feet the preparation of the gospel of peace; 16 in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. – Ephesians 6:10-17
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According to this letter of Paul, he gives all believers the training in order to combat and defeat darkness and Satan’s army. Paul has two requirements to win the battle against evil forces stated in verses 10 & 11: First, we must be strong in the Lord and lean on His strength and power; second, we must put on the full armor of God to stand firm against all tactics or strategies of the devil. Many Christians fail to do the first instruction for the training for the battlefield. In high school, I trained to be a cadet officer and I was a platoon leader. It took many months of mental and physical strength training to see if we are capable to lead our subordinates and win competitions. It wasn’t a real battlefield but we were trained to be disciplined for possible invasion in my country of origin. All soldiers and officers undergo certain training to strengthen their bodies and mind and senses so they can all be watchful of the enemy’s attacks. Paul explains that spiritual warfare is something we do not see, so our equipping and training must also be geared to focus on how we are attacked in the supernatural realm like rulers, powers and principalities of darkness. So, our weapons are not physical ones, but are spiritual armaments such as truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation and the word of God. Paul uses a clear picture of how we are to use these spiritual weapons to fight the evil surrounding us constantly by illustrating the armor that a soldier uses in the battlefield. We need to focus on being strong in the Lord, meaning we need to know our God’s power and might so we can lean on Him before we can actually wear His armor.
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REFLECTION
• Why is it important to know our God before we can actually combat darkness?
COMMANDS TO WORKERS & EMPLOYERS ILMA’S VLOG
January 25
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COMMANDS TO WORKERS & EMPLOYERS
5 Slaves, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ; 6 not by way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart. 7 With goodwill render service, as to the Lord, and not to people, 8 knowing that whatever good thing each one does, he will receive this back from the Lord, whether slave or free.9 And masters, do the same things to them, and give up threatening, knowing that both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no partiality with Him. -Ephesians 6:5-9
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In this chapter, Paul also addresses slaves or workers. In the days of Paul, most workers are slaves to a master who bought them for a price. In our current world, we have employers who we serve and follow so we can get paid for the services we render to them or to the company. The word “slaves” would be unwelcomed in our world today. It would anger someone to be called a slave. In ancient times, it wasn’t something to be frown upon. A slave’s needs are usually taken cared of by their masters in return for their loyalty and undying service. Faithfulness was something that people valued then. In our world today, no one is loyal to any employer anymore, but to themselves. It is not uncommon that workers cheat on their company time to do personal calls or other unrelated stuff that isn’t on their list of functions. In other words, a lot of worker or employers are dishonest or do not have integrity in the workplace.
Paul warns all workers to do their job with fear and trembling and sincerity in their hearts for Jesus. He shifts their perspectives to not only think of the wage that is tied up with their labor, but to do it for the Lord, as if they were actually slaves of Christ. They were asked to focus on the reward that they will be given by the Lord himself.
Masters or employers were also commanded to be fair and not threaten their workers. They need to think that the Lord is watching them and will be answerable to God if they treat them unjustly or oppress them. It is such a sad sight to see so many leaders/employers who abuse their powers and positions just to make other people’s lives miserable. This isn’t how a Christ-centered life is about. This is clearly the world’s system which is corrupt and cruel. If all employers and masters will be accountable to Christ, all laborers and slaves will be more faithful in their service to their employers or masters.
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REFLECTION
• Why is a worker advised to act as if they’re working for Jesus?
COMMANDS FOR CHILDREN AND PARENTS ILMA’S VLOG
January 24
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COMMANDS FOR CHILDREN AND PARENTS
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER (which is the first commandment with a promise), 3 SO THAT IT MAY TURN OUT WELL FOR YOU, AND THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG ON THE EARTH.4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. – Ephesians 6:1-4
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In the first four verses of the sixth chapter of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians, he gives the instructions for parents and children. Obedience is expected from children to give to their parents and in turn, their lives will go well and that they may have long lives. There is a counterpart command for the fathers in letter, but I am sure that the mother is also expected to follow this instruction. In the previous chapter, we hear Paul giving the instruction for the husbands who head their wives. So, the fathers are to take lead in bringing up their children and the wife is the helper. According to a commentary, the command is simple but this not only means that children have the responsibility to obey, but parents have the responsibility to teach their children obedience – one of the most important jobs for a parent. Since our inherent nature is already disobedient, it is imperative for parents to discipline and rear up their children in obedience. Disobedience comes along with consequences and the parents ought to teach them to be responsible for their disobedience and face such consequences. When Paul says that this is the first commandment with a promise, he is referring to Deuteronomy 5:16, where God promised to bless the obedient child.
Fathers are cautioned to raise their children without aggravating them into anger but to raise them and teach them God’s laws. Lloyd-Jones comments “When you are disciplining a child, you should have first controlled yourself… What right have you to say to your child that he needs discipline when you obviously need it yourself?” To bring up a child in training is not just scolding them but encouragement and correction must be combined with teaching and discipline. I had a father who raised me solely on scolding and pushing me to achieve but I was never taught and encouraged or shown affection or given attention only if I perform well. It drove me to anger because all I can remember are those times I was punished. I can’t remember being taught or told consequences if I don’t obey. I just got the consequence without the clear-cut boundaries set. It wounded me badly and I am still suffering those painful unloving and punitive acts until now.
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REFLECTION
• Why is teaching and disciplining children be coupled with encouragement as well?
THE LOVE THAT THE HUSBAND OUGHT TO GIVE HIS WIFE ILMA’S VLOG
January 23
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THE LOVE THAT THE HUSBAND OUGHT TO GIVE HIS WIFE
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, 26 so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are parts of His body. 31 FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND HIS MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH. 32 This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless, as for you individually, each husband is to love his own wife the same as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.
-Ephesians 5:25-33
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There is so much confusion in the roles of husband in our world today. It was the same issues that the Ephesians were facing in the days of Paul. So, he gave them a guideline as to the husband’s mandate to love the wife that was given to them. In verse 25, Paul commands husbands to give their wives the kind of love Christ would give his church. What does this mean? Paul gives a clear example how Christ gave Himself up for the church. He is talking about “sacrificial love”. Do we know how to sacrifice in this age of “selfies”? Do we value sacrifice in a world where the gods are the self? In verse 26, Paul gives the reason for sacrificial love that is ought to be given to the wife. It will purify her and Paul further instructs him how to do this: by cleansing her with truth that comes from God’s word. Verse 27 gives the husbands what the result or consequence would be if he did sacrificially love and cleanse her with Scriptures: she will be holy and blameless.
Paul reminds the husband of his own body when he commands him to love his wife. No wonder we have so much proliferation of pornography. Many men probably do not love their own bodies or they wouldn’t engage in such filthy acts of lasciviousness. Paul likens a man’s care for his own body as Christ cares for his church. Paul further expounds on the mystery of marriage, the two are already one flesh and no longer two separate bodies. They are now bound to operate as unified one body and need to care for that united flesh and united spirit just like Christ and his church are one.
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REFLECTION
• Why are husbands unable to sacrificially love their wives in our current world?
WHY WIVES MUST SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS ILMA’S VLOG
January 22
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WHY WIVES MUST SUBMIT TO THEIR HUSBANDS
22 Wives, subject yourselves to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. 24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything. – Ephesians 5:22-24
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According to a commentary on this chapter, the command given in Ephesians 5:22 is difficult. God knows this, so He also includes reasons for His command. He wants us to understand the principle behind the command. The first reason for a Christian wife’s submission must be obedience and respect to Jesus, instead of obedience and respect to her husband. Paul states that the second reason for a wife’s submission is because the husband is the head of the wife. In its full sense head has the idea of headship and authority. It means to have the appropriate responsibility to lead and the matching accountability. It is right and appropriate to submit to someone who is our head. Other passages in the bible that talks about headship is 1 Corinthians 11 and 1 Timothy 3, where emphasis is constantly placed on man, since he was created first and not the woman. There is a hierarchy in creation for humans. The bible says that woman was made out of the man in Genesis 2:22. Woman was taken out of the man to show a connection to him, and that she was meant to be a help for man, a helper who was fitting for him. Llyod-Jones says that man was created first and man was also made to have dominion over creation. It was to man that this authority was given over the brute animal creation; it was man who was called upon to give them names. Man was given the position of leadership, lordship, authority and power. Lloyd-Jones further comments “When a woman gets married, she gives up her name, she takes the name of her husband. That is Biblical, and also the custom of the whole world. That teaches us the relationship between the husband and the wife. It is not the husband who changes his name, but the wife.”
Paul likens the headship of the husband to his wife as Christ’s authority over his church. This is the order of God’s creation, but the world has corrupted this hierarchy by messing up roles and creating a different order. No wonder many women struggle to submit to their husbands because of the confusion that the world system has brought into our lives.
Gender roles have been messed up, therefore marriages become chaotic and confusing.
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REFLECTION
• How different is the concept of submission to the world and to God’s truth?
BE WISE AND UNDERSTAND GOD’S WILL ILMA’S VLOG
January 21
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BE WISE AND UNDERSTAND GOD’S WILL
15 So then, be careful how you walk, not as unwise people but as wise, 16 making the most of your time, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not get drunk with wine, in which there is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody with your hearts to the Lord; 20 always giving thanks for all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to our God and Father; 21 and subject yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ.
-Ephesians 5:15-21
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Paul gives us good advice once again in this letter. He cautions us to avoid living our lives as foolish people. He mentions the importance of time which probably refers to opportunities to bring the gospel to many because we live in wicked days. By being wise, he is referring to understanding the will of the Lord. In other words, we need to study the word of God in order for us to be the light for all unbelievers and believers as well to see. As believers, Jesus shone His light on all of us; that light should be shining to as much darkness is surrounding all humans in as much time as we can. According to David Guzik, the idea here is of the time; it is a definite season of opportunity that Christians must redeem. This same word is translated opportunity in Galatians 6:10.Paul isn’t telling us to make the most of every moment, even though that is good advice. He tells us to seize opportunity for the glory of Jesus. It isn’t to make the most of time, but to make the most of the time. The idea behind redeeming the time is that you buy up opportunities like a shrewd businessman. You make the most of every opportunity for Jesus Christ.
Paul addresses the issue of being drunk with wine because it is the opposite of being filled with the Spirit. He uses the word debauchery which means extreme indulgence in bodily pleasures, especially sexual immorality. The Spirit-filled life is marked by worship and gratitude, speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, never-ending gratitude for all He gave us. When we are filled with the Spirit, we will have a desire to worship God and to encourage others in their worship of God. The connection with being filled with the Spirit and praise is significant. Those who are filled with the Spirit will naturally praise, and praise is a way that we are filled with the Spirit.
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REFLECTION
• How is wisdom synonymous to understanding God’s will?
SONS OF DISOBEDIENCE ilma’s vlog
January 20
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SONS OF DISOBEDIENCE
See that no one deceives you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. 7 Therefore do not become partners with them; 8 for you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), 10 as you try to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 Do not participate in the useless deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them; 12 for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret. 13 But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light. 14 For this reason it says, “Awake, sleeper, And arise from the dead, And Christ will shine on you.”
-Ephesians 5:6-14
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In this letter, Paul warns the Ephesians of God’s wrath and judgment to all those who continue to live in darkness. He calls them “sons of disobedience.” A commentary says that “sons of disobedience” are believers before they were saved. “Sons of disobedience” is also a title given only to non-believers in the Bible, although it is possible for believers to also disobey God. However, believers do not experience the wrath of God, but they do experience God’s discipline when they sin. It speaks about man’s nature before he is born again. Before knowing Christ, men live in darkness and in sin.
In verse 7, Paul reminds all the believers that they shouldn’t have anything to do with those who are unregenerate and living in sin. In verse 8, he warns them to walk as children of light and explains that the fruit of light is goodness, righteousness and truth. One cannot experience this fruit if they choose to live in darkness and sin.
He explains to them that as they continue to be in the light, they will do what is pleasing to God instead of what they used to do which is only pleasing and gratifying themselves. He tells them not to be involved in evil and wicked deeds but instead, bring them into the light so it will be exposed. He says that darkness cannot hide in the light. Exposing them is not tolerating sin to propagate. In verse 14, Paul asks the believers to spiritually wake up, meaning, they can not regress in their spiritual growth, but grow towards living as children of light and not sons of disobedience.
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REFLECTION
• What happens when believers turn back into habitual sinning? Does that mean they lose their salvation?
IMITATE CHRIST & WALK IN LOVE ILMA’S VLOG
January 19
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IMITATE CHRIST & WALK IN LOVE
Therefore, be imitators of God, as beloved children; 2 and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.3 But sexual immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be mentioned among you, as is proper among saints; 4 and there must be no filthiness or foolish talk, or vulgar joking, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. 5 For this you know with certainty, that no sexually immoral or impure or greedy person, which amounts to an idolater, has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God -Ephesians 5:1-5
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In this chapter, Paul gives us a clear guideline how to be imitators of Christ and how-to walk in love. Paul was appointed by Christ Himself even though he wasn’t one of the original 12 apostles, meaning, he was also Spirit led and anointed to have the revelations that the other apostles were given. I think that his guidelines for imitating Christ resonates all the revelation we get from the disciple whom Jesus loved who is John. John mostly focused his writing on “love”, so his gospel would be so close to Paul’s guidelines to walk in love. In 1 John 4:8 , we know that God is love. In 1 John 4:7 it also says that whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. And Paul said to the Romans in verse 5:8 that God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. In 1 John 4:19 John says that we love because he first loved us and in 1 John 4:7 we are asked to love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. It is no wonder why Paul gives us these pointers so we can be like Christ and be a fragrant aroma and a sacrifice to God.
Paul warns the Ephesians that sexual immorality, or any impurity or greed must never be a part of their lives, nor any kind of rubbish talk. Only thanksgiving must be spoken. Paul labels sexual immorality, impurity and greed as idolatry and anyone who engages in these acts will have no place in God’s kingdom. These words of wisdom are clear cut ways so believers can ensure walking in the Spirit and in love.
How many of us keep watch over these acts of idolatry? The world is full of corruption and many of our churches are already infiltrated by false teachings and doctrines. We need to heed Paul’s advice to watch for these things that are not pleasing aroma to God.
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REFLECTION
• Why is it very hard to imitate Christ and walk in love in this corrupt world?