TITUS 2
6 Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. 7 Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. 9 Bondservants are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, 10 not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior.11 For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, 12 training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, 13 waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ, 14 who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works.
– Titus 2:6-14
TITUS 2 TRAINING FOR SELF-CONTROL
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
When you were chosen by your Lord Jesus Christ
You have been regenerated and given a new life
You no longer crave for the old things you used to love
The Holy Spirit changed all your desires into pleasing God
He also showed your undisciplined and unruly tendencies
God gave you his word so you can see all your iniquities
The Lord God gave you the ability to say “yes” to his Spirit
Obey the word and you will be able to resist the devil.
In this letter to Titus, Paul urges his spiritual son to train for self-control so he could pass on the same training of the older men to the younger men in the church. It is teaching by example that Paul counsels Titus to do so. What did this self-control training look like? He gave them some pointers to follow to regularly grow in this fruit of the Spirit by the following guidelines:
- Show yourself as an example of good works in all respects
- In teaching, they must exhibit integrity and dignity
- Be of sound speech so no one can find fault in them
- Bondservants are to be submissive to their masters in everything
- Be well-pleasing and avoid quarreling
- Renounce ungodliness and worldly passions
Sounds like a lot of work, doesn’t it? But this training is not just for Titus and the early Christian believers but for all Christians now. It should not be viewed as work to do because it is the Spirit working in our hearts and not us. Our part is to lean on God’s leading towards our maturity of faith.
REFLECTION
- Which of the guidelines do you still struggle with as you train for self-control and share details?








