EPHESIANS 6
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), 3 “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.5 Bondservants, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, 6 not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as bondservants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, 7 rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, 8 knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a bondservant or is free. 9 Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.
– Ephesians 6:1-9
EPHESIANS 6 SUBMIT AND HONOR YOUR PARENTS
A poem by ILMA inspired by these verses
God chose your mother and father to be your guardians
They were given authority to care for your well-being
So, you are instructed to obey your parents for your sake
Submit to them without complaining for God says so
Obey and honor the authority given to you by God himself
For the Lord promises you a good and long life.
Paul stressed the importance of obedience and submission to those authorities given to us in the household in these following verses. Why do you think God’s first command that has a promise was to obey and honor your parents? The probable reason for this is because this is the first command that teaches us how to trust and depend on someone. It makes us recognize that we are vulnerable, helpless and need someone for us to be shown the love of God. The parents are channels of God’s authority and God’s love for mankind. That’s why all human beings are given a parent to bring them up in the knowledge of God. Sadly, because of our sinful nature, some mothers and fathers are just passing on what they were also given by their own parents. Can you imagine if all parents knew the Lord? We would probably have less traumatized, neglected and abused children. If a mother and father knew and served the Lord, they would raise their children in the love of God. Interestingly, in verse 4, we hear Paul spell out the responsibility to the fathers not to provoke their children to anger but to raise them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Why not the mother? Because the father is the head of the family and the household. He is responsible for his whole family and the charge and authority were given to the ultimate head of the family and household.
Children are instructed to obey their parents. Why is obedience so important to God? It is the biggest act of humility and love. This is why our first God-given authority when we are born is our parents. They were given to us when we don’t know anything yet, so we could be shaped in how God made us.
REFLECTION
- Share insights as to what happens to children when they are disobedient to their parents.







